I am dating someone that has a child. she lived with her x boyfriend for 7 years and now has been seperated from him for 2 years.
my problem is that he still sees his child everyother weekend.
i have nothing against that but he is not consistant on that. i hate that because i like to go out with her on the weekends and i don't know if he is going to take her son or not.
my girlfriend let's him get away with being there for her soon whenever he feels like it. now i hate this because she is letting him control her even though he is not in the picture no more. it still gets worse............. she took him to court because i pushed her so she can get child support. so she went andd the judge granted that he can see him everyother weekend; which I discussed already, and that he had to pay her everyweek 125 dollars.the judge gave him the option to have it taken out of his workin check or that he should come to her job and pay her every thursday. he took option 2 . she let him do that which bothers me because he gets to see her at her new job which the people there now me as her man and not this other guy. so now it has been about 3 months and she never gets paid on those thursday's it's always late or forgotten($) . . so what happens she spends a lot of the time calling him and interacting with him, and he does that on purpose i think just to still have her in his life someway. she let's him get away with missing child support here and there. that pisses me off because she let's him do what he wants when he wants.
my life with here is starting suck because not only does she have a kid whick i'm not fond about but when we are to ourselves we are arguing about her x. one more thing sorry!
when her x takes her son for the weekend, her son comes back with little gifts that his father brought so he can give to her. but he uses his son which is 5 years ol, to give them to her as if they were from her son but there is a meaning behind it because it was really intend from him(x). the otherday her son sliped and said "look mom this wand is for you it's from my daddy." i was mad because she tried to hide the wand and pull her son quickly so i wouldn't here the conversation. she new it was given to her from her x, she told me and she also said that she only kept it because she liked it not because it came from her x. i told her that it's not the point if youlike it the point is that came from someone else, which you hate now and love being with me. i told her that would she like it if i accepted something from x and she said no. so then i said why do you do it? all she had no raction. i can go on on with this so let me end it here, please give me any advice! or email me at vjuan@optonline.net
thanks!
my problem is that he still sees his child everyother weekend.
i have nothing against that but he is not consistant on that. i hate that because i like to go out with her on the weekends and i don't know if he is going to take her son or not.
my girlfriend let's him get away with being there for her soon whenever he feels like it. now i hate this because she is letting him control her even though he is not in the picture no more. it still gets worse............. she took him to court because i pushed her so she can get child support. so she went andd the judge granted that he can see him everyother weekend; which I discussed already, and that he had to pay her everyweek 125 dollars.the judge gave him the option to have it taken out of his workin check or that he should come to her job and pay her every thursday. he took option 2 . she let him do that which bothers me because he gets to see her at her new job which the people there now me as her man and not this other guy. so now it has been about 3 months and she never gets paid on those thursday's it's always late or forgotten($) . . so what happens she spends a lot of the time calling him and interacting with him, and he does that on purpose i think just to still have her in his life someway. she let's him get away with missing child support here and there. that pisses me off because she let's him do what he wants when he wants.
my life with here is starting suck because not only does she have a kid whick i'm not fond about but when we are to ourselves we are arguing about her x. one more thing sorry!
when her x takes her son for the weekend, her son comes back with little gifts that his father brought so he can give to her. but he uses his son which is 5 years ol, to give them to her as if they were from her son but there is a meaning behind it because it was really intend from him(x). the otherday her son sliped and said "look mom this wand is for you it's from my daddy." i was mad because she tried to hide the wand and pull her son quickly so i wouldn't here the conversation. she new it was given to her from her x, she told me and she also said that she only kept it because she liked it not because it came from her x. i told her that it's not the point if youlike it the point is that came from someone else, which you hate now and love being with me. i told her that would she like it if i accepted something from x and she said no. so then i said why do you do it? all she had no raction. i can go on on with this so let me end it here, please give me any advice! or email me at vjuan@optonline.net
thanks!






