Remember what I said before. If you're NOT ready to marry her, then keep it zipped up in your pants. This will only be a problem for you if you can't control yourself, and you could come home with more than your bargained for if you're not really careful. Sex education and knowledge is schoolyard-level there. I would NOT be counting on her being up-to-date like a registered working-girl in Hamburg. This is the Phils. Girls from the provinces are a dime a dozen, as far as the low-lifes who run bars are concerned. They get diseases. They get pregnant. They get replaced.

My advice? If you don't know if she's a virgin or if she can be trusted, then you're not ready to marry her. If you're not ready to marry her, then you shouldn't be contemplating shagging her. If she says she's a virgin, and you trust her, then you have nothing to worry about. Virginity's a bit hard to disguise. If she isn't? Then (a) you have to decide if her past bothers you, and if you DO decide to marry her anyway, then (b) you get her to a doc for a test. I think it takes a week. Plenty of cold water in the bathroom to keep you under control while you're waiting on test results.

Now....all this nonsense about "safe sex" is a lot of hooeey. Have you used condoms before? They have a habit of coming off at wrong moments, often without you even realising it. They are NOT "safe". The only way you can be safe is to only make love with a girl whom you know is clean. That means she's either a virgin, or you have a doc's certificate. Act in haste, and you may well repent at leisure.

....and if she's a virgin, and you take this from her, and you DON'T marry her.....then SHE will repent for the rest of her life. So don't take the decision lightly.


Jeff_from_Australia

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