WoW, Jeff I never thought about it that way. It makes sense now. She just doesn't want me to think about her in a bad way or think she is "like those other girls". Good point. She did make it clear that IF she was here with me, she would like a job and she would like to send money home. Fine by me. :lol And the shirt, either way I am flattered! I wanted to see if anyone else was asked to send anything like that. Thanks!