Yeah I have read through a lot of posts that deal with family and sending money. Or ones girlfriend asking for money for whatever reason. Now, my question is: Should I worry that Rhoda has never asked me for a dollar. She even went as far to say I will never have to send her family money. I found this to be very strange and not like anything else I have read. I know she works and has money of her own but her family and 9 brothers and sisters are not well off at all. She is the second oldest and the only reason she sends money to her family is because she wants to not because she was told to do so. Is this rare? Or does any one think I am missing the bigger picture? Come to think of it, the only thing she asked me to send was my favorite shirt unwashed.... :laugh