:laugh Yeah that blood comment was funny! So true and SO SO hard. I told Rhoda that we have to think straight but still,...its hard to do just that. I find it funny how the urban ledgens work both ways. Her friends and some family tell her how I am going to beat her and keep her chained to the kitchen floor. Now I have heard this before from several places across the internet. Has anyone seen or does anyone have proof that some guy really kept his girlfriend chained up?? I cant imagin that? Anyway, I would never do such things. She asked me once if I would ever hit her, I had never been asked that question before. Where do these ideas and ledgens come from?