Yeah, don't listen to the advice of others who have no experience. Most will have heard nothing but urban myths, and will advise you accordingly.

All I can say is (a) have an open mind, (b) be prepared to happily get back on the plane a single, unattached man if it doesn't work out, and (c) think with the head on your SHOULDERS!

I say this because many a man feels that they would be some sort of loser if they'd invested time and a plane ticket into a relationship with a girl if it turned out things weren't as they expected, and their pride prevents them from walking away. And many a man ALSO finds himself with a charming and pretty girl sitting on his lap, kissing him and treating him like a prince, and then tries to make a rational decision whilst all the blood has been drawn down from his brain to another area.

So just be careful and sensible, and only make decisions you're 100% happy with. :D


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