I think we have all felt the same as you jeff, i mean starting a relationship this way goes againt the societies Norms. Not only are we dealing with our own thoughts of uncertanity we also have to deal with Friends and family cautioning us against it. I know its just because they don't want to see us hurt and make mistakes but it makes things harder. A constent Influx of peoples oppinions makes things a lot worse sometimes. Make you question even more then you would on your own.