Hi there,
If you really feel strongly for this woman, then you must accept her, her child, and her contacts and dealings with this child's father. When you decided to have a relationship with her, she came as a package. Maybe you should change your attitude to the whole situation because no matter how much she loves you, when it comes to the crunch, she will not choose you over her child and that's almost always true. All these resentments you have could mean a lot of problems now and in the future. How about considering someone without a child? Just my suggestion...

survivor99